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“Needy” mindset

We're always looking for and going somewhere we don't have now.

As we are

We're very trained in always wanting something other than what we have now. We're always missing something. Health, money or love...

If we look at our current life we will see that it is impregnated with many outstanding desires and claims: we want them to love us more, to be treated better, we want to be recognized, we want to have another body, another age... and so many, many more things .  

We have a permanent “need disability”. We grew up with an idea of scarcity that calves deep in us. We're always looking for and going somewhere we don't have now. That's how we travel every day.

The “needy” mind not only wants more things that are bought with money, but also more love, more freedom, more confidence, more security, more sensations, more experiences, more stimuli, more something... because it believes that when it has  that,  it gets rid of scarcity.

But it does not happen, the mind in the “necessity mode” never stops because it is a program, a way of living from what it does not have now. It's never enough, he always keeps heading towards something, trying, looking for more, with lack on toes. And because he often doesn't get what he wants, he thinks he doesn't deserve it or “doesn't have to be.” So in addition to being in need, it adds the painful content of non-deserving .  He's already found a new conflict. He doesn't have and does not deserve.

And in these two places we live, or rather, we survived...

The root of the problem of the human mind is the belief that we need something to be better or to be happy. That's fake. Because we have already found that when we had “that” we weren't so happy, and if we were it didn't last as long as we thought and we demanded something new again. And so thousands of times.

Wanting something is not bad, but if you live from the inner abundance, from a place that recognizes that whether you get it or not, you can continue your immovable state of happiness. Living from scarcity is pure constant dissatisfaction, which translates into the phrase “Yes, but...”.

Deciding that what we have and are now is enough does not mean that we will not have new adventures, but to that we are grateful for this moment which gives us a state of mind of prosperity that will generate new circumstances that will come in addition, as a result of our belief and experience of present inner abundance.

Publication Date: 17/10/2018

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